Briefing
All these years, I’ve been telling my friends I am not going to get married and settle down. After years of ding-donging and after careful consideration, I thought it’s time to get married.
It has got nothing to do with age and trying to have kids before approaching the dangerous zone for some unfortunate event. It is because I think I’ve met a really nice man and he will do anything to make me happy.
So now we are up for our plan – tying the knot some time next year.
When I first break the news to my mom, she was very happy. She is a bit confused because she doesn’t know what she wants to do.
I am going to be married to a very different family… well I don’t like the idea of marrying into a family but there’s no other way to say it. If I say “we are dealing with a family from different background and it may not be our decision on what is going to happen” may sound harsh because there’s a lot of thing I don’t like is going to happen and I’ll be stressed out because I have been dealing with this kind of problem many times.
I make it to a point that this is my wedding and I want to do it my way. My guests will enjoy themselves, and most importantly, all my family and friends will be with me on this very special day (it may not happen again).
My fiancé may not agree with me because he wants to make sure everybody is happy. Idealistic huh?! There’s no way everybody will be happy unless someone is taking charge.
At some point, when there are elders in the family, we have to invite peoples they want to invite. It is not by choice. It is an important affair. It involves to entire society and it may affect the economy.
We need a wedding planner.
When I told my friends I am getting married they thought I was just pulling their legs. Now it is going to happen and they have a lot of things to do because I know exactly what each and everyone of them have to do – to have fun with me.
There are lots of things to do. To begin with, I need a theme. My fiancé and I love the beach. It would be lovely if we can have a beach party.
Nope! Too many people that are going to get invited which we are not going to meet after the wedding would be some people who only play “black tie dinner” with beautiful gowns and tuxedos.
No beach wedding is a down side but there’s a will there’s a way. I told my fiancé whatever is it, I want it to be perfect and I want the theme to be the beach.
He wants to make sure everybody to be happy in the process since his parents would like the entire Kuching to be there and his siblings will surely want to get involves at some points.
Before wedding, somehow there will be dinner somewhere organizes by his parents. During the wedding day, there must have a list of stuff they want to do. After the wedding day, if there are some relatives left, they would want more lunch or dinner to knit the ties between 2 families until everybody sick and tired of eating and drinking and go home.
I don’t want my family to be pressured. I want them to enjoy the days they are going to spend in Kuching, on my wedding day.
We need a wedding planner.
It has got nothing to do with age and trying to have kids before approaching the dangerous zone for some unfortunate event. It is because I think I’ve met a really nice man and he will do anything to make me happy.
So now we are up for our plan – tying the knot some time next year.
When I first break the news to my mom, she was very happy. She is a bit confused because she doesn’t know what she wants to do.
I am going to be married to a very different family… well I don’t like the idea of marrying into a family but there’s no other way to say it. If I say “we are dealing with a family from different background and it may not be our decision on what is going to happen” may sound harsh because there’s a lot of thing I don’t like is going to happen and I’ll be stressed out because I have been dealing with this kind of problem many times.
I make it to a point that this is my wedding and I want to do it my way. My guests will enjoy themselves, and most importantly, all my family and friends will be with me on this very special day (it may not happen again).
My fiancé may not agree with me because he wants to make sure everybody is happy. Idealistic huh?! There’s no way everybody will be happy unless someone is taking charge.
At some point, when there are elders in the family, we have to invite peoples they want to invite. It is not by choice. It is an important affair. It involves to entire society and it may affect the economy.
We need a wedding planner.
When I told my friends I am getting married they thought I was just pulling their legs. Now it is going to happen and they have a lot of things to do because I know exactly what each and everyone of them have to do – to have fun with me.
There are lots of things to do. To begin with, I need a theme. My fiancé and I love the beach. It would be lovely if we can have a beach party.
Nope! Too many people that are going to get invited which we are not going to meet after the wedding would be some people who only play “black tie dinner” with beautiful gowns and tuxedos.
No beach wedding is a down side but there’s a will there’s a way. I told my fiancé whatever is it, I want it to be perfect and I want the theme to be the beach.
He wants to make sure everybody to be happy in the process since his parents would like the entire Kuching to be there and his siblings will surely want to get involves at some points.
Before wedding, somehow there will be dinner somewhere organizes by his parents. During the wedding day, there must have a list of stuff they want to do. After the wedding day, if there are some relatives left, they would want more lunch or dinner to knit the ties between 2 families until everybody sick and tired of eating and drinking and go home.
I don’t want my family to be pressured. I want them to enjoy the days they are going to spend in Kuching, on my wedding day.
We need a wedding planner.
posted by Moonfish @ 11:58 PM
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